Often, we try to tackle everything at once, envisioning scenarios of how things that should be, could be, and seldom are. We bombard ourselves with what if scenarios, and their envisioned (often) negative outcomes. Many times, this thought process, keeps us from moving forward and making progress; keeping us stuck exactly where we don't want to be!

"A journey of a thousand miles, begins with a single step." - Lao Tzu.

If you try to accomplish a thousand mile journey at once, (your outcome) it is seemingly impossible, if you take it one step (one choice) at a time, it becomes completely manageable.

We can only give our concentrated thought to one thing at a time, so instead of focusing on the "worse case scenarios", and negative energy and emotions, ask yourself:

"Is what is going on/happening right now acceptable to me?"

If it isn't, then the next choice is "What can I do (what am I willing to) do to change it?"
Then follow through with the change (one step at a time.)

If it is acceptable, then enjoy/learn/live it! The follow up question, if it is a good experience is, "How do I get more (more often moments) of this?"

Repeat, as necessary and Enjoy your journey!